Tuesday, February 3, 2009

continuing... cautiously...

I've learned I need to be more conscience of what I say for fear of hurting people's feelings. I never mean to, I just do. I type without speaking it aloud, so that it doesn't sound too harsh, basically. Things that I have blogged about have sometimes appeared more abrupt and harsh than I actually mean. In my head it sounds perfectly fine to me.


So I guess you could say I'm turning over a new leaf. I'm going to be cautious of what I'm saying, and if I've offended you I truly am sorry. I've always thought of myself as a nice person, but recently I've considered otherwise. I may even make this blog private one day in case I change my mind... so if you do read and I would love to know who actually does read this thing, please let me know so I can add you to my email list.

5 comments:

JonandLo said...

Add me!! locramer@gmail.com

Shauna said...

What are you TALKING about???????????????? You've never ever been rude on here!!! It's YOUR blog! It's your RIGHT to speak your mind!

Cheyenne and John said...

I agree.. blogs are for you to talk.. and sometimes other's may not agree... but other's also choose to be offended or not.. I will be honest- you and I don't see eye to eye on everything (as I've realized reading your blog) but I totally respect your opinion and don't take personal offense that you have a different opinion than me! Anyway- if you go private, add me! cwinslow34@yahoo.com

Kathleen said...

Girl, I've spoken my thoughts with you on this particular subject. You have never said anything even remotely offensive, and I agree with Cheyenne that others who read can choose to be offended - but that's their stuff. If I've learned anything from therapy it's that if you continuously take on other people's "stuff", you don't have the room for your own "stuff". And yours is the only "stuff" that matters. ;) Love you; glad you brought it back.

meredithreynolds08 said...

It's your blog... therefore don't be ashamed of your words and what you choose to say! You have every right to say or blog what you are feeling!! You have never ever offended me and nor do I ever expect you to... you are amazing and sweet - speak your mind girl!!
love you.